Well things are starting to look a whole lot better. We (me and Danni) have our own place in Mount Lawley and we seem to be settling in. Our first week was interesting as we had no TV and microwave and our first day involved us realising that we had no cutlery with the exception of a plastic fork and a penguin shaped icecream scoop... Seeing as I had already grabbed the plastic fork to eat my pasta with, my gal ended up having to use the penguin scoop... I can't look at pasta without thinking of her eating with that icecream scoop *grins evilly*

We've since bought a microwave and copious amounts of cutlery and a friend has lent us his TV so we're pretty much set with the exception of lacking a toaster and a kettle which will be resolved on Friday when I get paid :)

I've  also just gotten my STAT results and I've passed... YAY! and I've also applied for Psychology in Murdoch uni so hopefully, it'll be approved :)

OK, so today was so far the worst day of the week. Thankfully it seems to have settled down.

I decided the past week to get a house. This has since changed after speaking to my extremely nosey parents. So now i have a different plan.


1. We (me and Danni) will be getting a rental place...for now...
2. Im going to pay of my credit card  so that I don't owe anyone money and change to a Visa debit card or something similar.
3. Im going to ban Danni from surrounding herself with too many dildos and vibrators as she's been obsessed with  just randomly turning them on and watching them vibrate for no apparent reason. (yes, she's doing it right now)
4. I'm going to seriously start saving for a home.

Anyways, time for me to bugger off as Im going to the beach with Emerald for a little while to chill. (yes, i know, it's almost midnight and im wanting to head off to the beach....)

Well tomorrow's the day when i get to fly out to see my girl.

To be quite honest, I'm kinda getting over Perth. Im bored and meh without Danni. and everything's starting to bug me. Currently Im sitting here bored out of my mind. Tomorrow's gonna be packed methinks. Im going to Dimsum for lunch then we're going to Pride fairday and then I have to meet an old aquaintance of mine who's now highly religious and prolly wants to convert me to becoming some jesus loving freak. THEN i have to make sure Im fully packed for Melbourne. drop my car off at my parents and then head to Devi's and then we're going to the airport. ARRRRRGGGGHHHH!

Del passed away on Friday 21st September 2007.

The cause of death is yet to be confirmed. It could be suicide or her diabetes playing up.  We're yet to find out the results from the coroner...

I saw her the night before she had died. She had gotten a taxi turned up at my workplace wondering why i wasnt talking to her. (there had been issues regarding a text message which had been sent to my parents which we had thought she had sent) We talked and eventually went to Fast Eddys for dinner. She had a toasted sandwich. it was good to see her eat. She hadnt been eating much cos of her diabetes.We were discussing this text message issue and were trying to determine who else it could have been. (at that point we had determined it wasn't her who had sent it.) She was angry that everyone had thought it was her. When I went to drop her off home we had to pull over so she could calm down before going home to her mum. She wanted to go to our playground. She didn't want to go home to her mother. I wish I had brought her here or at least took her to our playground that night. I'm sorry Del.

We sat in my car down the road from her place and just chatted about the future. We discussed our "one day and one night together thing" (her way of saying good bye to me as her partner) Del wanted to move out of home. She wanted a place of her own however did not think it was possible financially and possibly in the future physically cos of her legs. She was saying she had set a date for her suicide but she didn't want it to affect her father's operation. I was trying to convince her not to do it using various reasons like his recovery will be shit even if she did it after. She already knew i would be upset. She said she was past caring. The main reason she had given was that her legs were playing up. She had said that she was getting the same pains which led to the time she was previously wheelchair bound. She said she didnt want to be in constant pain and be living like that again. She was so bitter at having spent her 21st in a wheelchair. To think i've spent so many times telling her we would celebrate her 22nd in a way to make it up for her 21st. Her birthday was on Boxing Day. We had discussed her having a weekend away to celebrate her birthday so that it was not like her other birthdays. God she hated birthdays. She hated the family conflict. Anyway, i tried giving her some hope that even if she was in a wheelchair cos of her legs playing up she could still do a whole bunch of things like working at home.

Anyways, we chatted for a bit longer and then it started getting late and I had to go home so i dropped her off. I was so tired at that stage and I haven't been in a social mood so i turned down a good bye hug. She just kissed me on my cheek good night. I wish I had hugged her. I really wish i did.  She had sent me a text message later saying "look after my baby, it's in my jacket pocket" I rang her and asked her what she had meant. I should have known, it was her ipod. I said that I would get it back to her. We talked as i drove along the freeway and then i said good night. I didn't think it would be the last time i would ever speak to her again.

I miss her so much. I still have some of her things in my room. Almost everything reminds me of her. All i want to do now is for this to be a really bad dream. To just wake up and to be able to just call her and hang out like we used to.

Good bye my friend. I love you and have always cared.  May your next life be filled with love and light.

Naughty horoscopes...

(shameless stolen from Melbourne Goth Forum --- gothic.org.au )



Aries (March 21-April 19)--

LIVES for head massages. ANY part of their head: Lips, Eyelids, Eyes, Tongue, you name it! Aries also likes to fuck in public places during business hours. You need to be open minded with an Aries...If you don't feel like being duct taped to a wall and beaten with live ferrets: Tell Them. Be warned! IF you don't want to be kinky, don't be with an Aries. If you say 'No' too often to them you may lose them as a lover forever. Aries Idea of Heaven Is: Participating in live sex shows for money. Having their favorite human toy win first place in a pony boy/girl race. Fucking as an art form on display in a gallery. They secretly crave to be strippers or Annie Sprinkle. Aries LIVES to be jealous...they also like to coordinate other people fucking. Secretly desire to be fluffers. Aries owned a Violet Wand before it was popular. They are also Sadists. The best gift to give an Aries is designer colored nylon rope in their favorite color. They live to tease and torture...HEY...Somebody's gotta do it, right? They like hair pulling. Beware of their 'toy' collections. Don't tease them...they will rape you. They love pony boys and girls...I cannot emphasize this enough! They like it doggie style especially if they are steering. Give an Aries 100 feet of rope and a 250 dollar flogger, they will follow. As long as they get to be the one holding the handle.


Taurus (April 20 - May 20)--

Don't tease them. It will only piss them off. Taureans are realists. If you say that you are horny: Prepare to be fucked. Taureans are heavy indulger's, though. All forms of indulgence: Sex-drugs-wine-food...whatever their vice may be: they simply cannot get enough. They do not believe in moderation. They will fuck until they are sore. Taurus likes to have sex just for the sake of having sex. What they lack in originality, they make up for in stamina and endurance. Okay...so they may not be into bondage, okay? But they WILL lick you until you have at least three orgasms or until you pass out...whichever comes first. Taurus uses their tongue for EVERYthing...and I mean that. They love to lick people in whipped cream, alcohol, chocolate, flesh and candy???Bring it on! Caution: They are looking for a relationship so be kind to them. They also have a BIG wet thing for scent. Sometimes they don't want a lover to bathe before sex. Or you may find them shaggin in a garden or a greenhouse...to smell the dirt: After all, they are Earth signs.


Gemini (May 21 - June 21) --

Ever heard the saying "Been there. Done that?" chances are it came from a Gemini. They are always changing...they are the eternal Chameleon. You never who you are fucking that day. They have had sex. A lot of sex. Probably because they are in a constant state of flux...always looking for the new high. The biggest turn on for a Gemini is: LOCATION LOCATION LOCATION. Here is just a smattering of places that I know Geminis have fucked: In the elevator of the mausoleum of Forest Lawn Cemetery DURING A FUNERAL. Wine cellars in nightclubs. Vip Areas of Theatres. Public Parks. The 18th Hole of a private golf course. In the center of a race track just as the flag was going up. On various Gym equipment at numerous health spas. A football stadium during the SuperBowl. A Balcony railing at Mardis Gras in the French Quarter...just to name a few. If it's shiny...they will want it. They are big on DRAMA so be prepared for them to set the mood for sex no matter WHERE you might end up. They WILL take the initiative. They live off their charm. If they are male and gay they will still be the greatest fuck your female friend has ever had. Go figure. They are also Voyeurs but always willing to lend a hand ... or any other part of anatomy. If they are depressed, suck on their fingers, that always seems to cheer them up. Their goal is to fuck in the front row of the OSCARS when the cameras pans on them so that they can wave.


Cancer (June 22 - July 22) --

This is the sign that needs to be cuddled. They may believe that they were born in the wrong period or century. They DWELL in the past...Victorian...Roman...Medieval...You name it. They usually will only fuck at night...come to think of it...they fuck better at night anyway. Maybe its because they are ruled by the Moon. This is a sign that is looking for TRUE love...I mean REAL TRUE DEEP LOVE...that 'Romancing The Stone' Frikkin 'Wuthering Heights' kind of love. They probably cry at the end of any Jane Austen flick. They want to be swept off of their feet. They really do deserve it, too. They are constantly dumped on by previous past fucktard ex lovers that think they own them. Sometimes Cancers pick the wrong guy/girl and get beat up or emotionally hurt. Why? They think its what they deserve. Which is bullshit. They are wonderful people. They love water sports (jacuzzis/pools/showers/saunas/bathouses...) They want to be comfortable while fucking...oh sure the foreplay may have had you bent over a barstool...but when you get home they want comfy couches, beds, fluffy pillows, anything soft and fuzzy that is not a pet. Cancerians also have a horrible tendency to misplace their clothing. Highly Exhibitionistic. They live for Oral...as long as it tastes good. Karma Sutra honey dust is a good start...mints...ice cream..anything with sugar...fruit...Don't rush them they smolder. But when you get started, be ready for a long night. They like to play with ice cubes, too. Also nipples are a BIG thing for Crabs...they all secretly wish to get their nipples pierced. Can be submissive highly. Masturbation is where they get their bonus points at. Be warned: They like 'em YOUNG...so you better be ready to dress up like an Animation school boy/girl with a whip to keep 'em.


Leo (July 23 - Aug. 22)--

If we could put our pussy cat naked and jeweled in rubies on a dias in a museum...this would be their idea of heaven. Everyone admiring them: Hell, yeah! "WORSHIP ME." is their motto. If you fuck up just once with a Leo...That's IT. DON'T be expecting them to take you back. They are not willing victims, after all, they CHOSE you...you screwed up? They can UN-Choose you just the same. They live for Ménage à trios...or Qua...or Cinco....anything in a group is okay as long as they are in the middle. Leos also like bubble baths. Once you start with a Leo...do not think you can just turn their emotions on or off like a switch...they demand satisfaction. NOW. All the stress in the world ends up in the Leo neck...They need neck rubs...they feel like they have the entire weight of the world on their head. If its kinky, a Leo has probably done it..You know Madonna's a LEO, right? She masters the Madonna/Whore/Goddess thing pretty well, huh? I wonder why? Could it be cause shes a fuckin' LEO? yep. Valmont was probably a Leo. They probably have the movie at home. Get out your furry gloves and faux mink whips for this kitten. they love soft floggers and there is a specific spot on their back right above their tail bone that is heaven to them where if touched right will actually make them purr...you think I'm bullshitting you? Try it, I dare ya. Leo likes to be on top...that's a given. They need control. Their underwear is always..er..interesting to say the least. They LIVE for boudoir photography. They LOVE to be photographed. If they can afford a nude or semi nude photo of them..do it now. Leos are born and bred to be porn stars...even if they act prude about it..they have thought about it. They usually end up in vocations where they can be served like a king or queen (EX: 24/7 Domina...Mistresses...Gigolos...Bar owners...Promoters...Runway Models...) may have a fetish about decorating their genitalia...not piercings, per se...but other jeweled adornments definitely. Rubies usually are their love. I knew one LEO with a solid silver Cockring embedded with rubies. Love to have their hair brushed and played with. You had better be vocal in bed with them...they want to hear how well they are doing. If a Leo has chosen YOU as a mate. Just accept it and enjoy the ride. Be prepared for anything. They have no problem tying you down. They ARE the naughty school teacher, the pirate captain, the gypsy king and Cleopatra all rolled into one.


Virgo (Aug 23 - Sept. 22)--

This is the MOST confused sign on the planet. This sign is pretty realistic: No Frills. They love to fuck in showers not because it's kinky...but because of hygienic reasons...they are big into sanitary issues. Every Virgo I have ever met has issues...always going back to hygiene. They have to arrange time in their busy schedules to have sex...But when a reservation is made...You had better be there on time, if not a little early. With flowers. And Clean. Virgos want to make their partner happy. That's it. USUALLY. You will always get a freaky Virgo, but not often. Even so, they will TRY to get YOU to cum. And if they can't make you cum, they will buy someone or something that will. Yes you read that right. The sign of the virgin believes in prostitution. Missionary is their big thing. I wish I could give Virgos more kink...but, that's about it. Except maybe try spanking them sometime and see what will happen. They LIVE to masturbate...whether its you rubbing them, them rubbing you...them rubbing against your fox fur coat...whatever! Some Virgos WANT to be punished. They will do naughty things to be caught so they can be punished. They are perfect for Aries who want to punish SOMEBODY. Anybody! Pretend rape scenes also turn on Virgos. As long as they know they are secretly safe. If you have ever seen the Carnival Rape scene in 'Henry & June' this is a Virgo wet dream. Also all Virgos like to see Camel Toes...what's up with that? Sherlock Holmes was probably a Virgo...or a repressed Gemini.


Libra (Sept. 23 - Oct. 23)--

Let the games begin! Libra will try anything once. Twice to make sure they liked it. Three times to be absolutely sure. Do not touch a Libra's head during oral sex...that may work with an Aries, but not here. Libras LOVE giving oral - They LOVE getting it , too. But don't feel like they get enough...too bad, because they sure as hell are getting enough of everything else. They will buy toys to make YOU use it on THEM. Libras are mental creatures that believe in living and fulfilling fantasies that they haven't done in real life...which is rare because they have done almost EVERYTHING. They have no problem sploshing. To them, sitting in a pie COULD be fun. Porn? Bring it on! Sex, video AND food? ALRIGHT! They are heavily exhibitionistic by accident. They are accident prone, they lose bras, underwear, condoms....they also accidentally end up in bed with people. Amazing how THAT works! They like to cross dress. Both sexes do this quite well, actually. Male Librans are mistaken for women all the time, and Female Libras are mistaken for men every now and again too...its because they are under the goddess Aphrodite. They are never just ONE sex. They can always feel what the opposite sex feels. Which is why they are rarely clingy, except in rare circumstances when they have been led on, then watch the manipulative side of the scales swing. They love to role play and play dress up. They like to dress like hookers or Queen Elizabeth (This is the men, too!) Who are they really? It depends on what day of the week it is. They believe that life is too short to date ugly people in more ways than one. So if you are being shagged by a Libra, there is a good reason. Whether you are attractive physically, emotionally, mentally or have a fantastic sense of humor, there is always a reason for a Libra to be fucking you. But they HATE vulgarity. They despise feeling like they are on a waiting list to get your attention...worse yet, feeling like they are your groupie. That won't last long, then. They have already figured out HOW to destroy you...now they are biding their time to see how long until they throw YOU away...with nothing. But, if you get past all that, expect long luxurious nights talking and playing Strip Tarot or Naked Chess. They are the Graceful Slut...but not slutty and yet accident prone. If you are going to fuck a Libra: Get mirrors. Lots of them. They have more vanity issues than a Gemini. Nothing is TOO kinky for them. They are the eternal Courtesan or Concubine. They are sex therapists, porn writers who knows?


Scorpio (Oct. 24 - Nov. 21) --

HOLEE SHIT! here comes the masters and mistresses of FUCK! Sorry Leo, but Scorps ARE the leaders in the Kink O Rama factor (Hey Lions, you are the kings and queens of everything ELSE...let it go...OMMMMMMMM) Scorpios KNOW how to seduce. They KNOW what is kinky. They are highly manipulative. They KNOW how to get you to do what THEY want. They KNOW how to fuck. And they are making room for modifications. All they have to do is walk into a room and look at you, and you WILL be on your back assuming the position. One Scorpio I knew used to shackle her lover to her dining room table and serve food around his naked . body for dinner parties. She would put the Dip right between his legs and tell everyone to try some.This is just an idea of Scorpio kink. She would punish him later if things went...er...awry. Anne Rice (During her 'Beauty' phase) wants to be a Scorpio. Leos and Scorpios make for a fabulous tryst...but the emotions are staggering. Don't dare TRY to make a Scorpio jealous...they will duct tape you to a chair and make you watch them fuck your boss..or your sister/brother..or Mother...hell, that's their idea of a typical normal Thursday night. They love to use gag balls. They always have carpet burns on their knees and back...this is from their constant rutting like a wild weasel in heat. They are also very cunning and secretive. They LOVE pony girls and have a fetish for riding crops and bridles. Most Scorpios have mastered the Listermint Blowjob for heightened and elongated pleasure. I hope you can go the distance and can make them come...otherwise gods help ya. Favorite Song: Master and Servant. Most female Scorpios have a horrible tendency of being Alcohol Lesbians...get them drunk enough they will kiss a girl...or two....or three...or five....One Scorpio girl I knew got so toasty at a party once...she kissed EVERYONE in the entire house...there were at least sixty people there! All their clothes are easy access. And they can definitely get their foot over their head. One Scorpio man I knew could blow himself. A definite good time...but beware their sting!


Sagittarius (Nov. 22 - Dec. 21) --

Right out the chute I am going to tell you...THEY LOVE TO BE SHAVED. True love is being shaved. Sagittarius love is being shaved by someone they love. And they LOVE to travel. They are constantly moving. They are always packing and going somewhere. They are the outdoorsy type. Why fuck in a tent when you can be surrounded by Sequoias under a moonlit night and have sex? Sags will Fuck Everywhere! Most Sags flash body parts and are closet nudists. They will be the first to register for nude volleyball at the nudist resort. Don't get me wrong, they have a TON of provocative clothing at home, but they like to be naked. EVERYWHERE. They don't know why its against the law to drive naked in a convertible especially. It just doesn't seem right. Downright Anti-American to them. They are also bleeding heart causefighters. They believe that sex is a biological function amongst friends...why fight it when you can fuck it? A perfect night for them is to : Talk. Fuck. Talk. Fuck. Go out and look at sea otters..Pick some flowers...Talk. Fuck. Laugh. Have a drink. Talk. Fuck. Dinner. Fuck. Sleep. Fuck and Fuck some more! Male Sags have more fetishes than a female Sag. Foot fetishes...Lingerie...cross dressing...Female Sags are nature lovers: Do it in the bushes, Sex on the beach, in the ocean, hell behind the local laundromat! Kinky? they Love Kinky. Wear that pirate getup for these girls, they'll be on their knees in a heartbeat. They'll dress kinky and skip the panties under a short skirt if you're going out on the town, just to get you going, and I do mean going~ these girls want it all night long! Whipped cream, body oils and bondage,Licking and sucking, whatever it takes to keep the party going! . They believe in doing it and doing it often! fucking before the movie starts..., fucking at the theatre during the previews and maybe a quick blowjob on the way home. Sag females love sexing up your whole body! Give them a chance, there won't be a body part they haven't sucked licked or fucked!You can touch them anywhere and they got hott cause they're freaky like that! They love leg rubs and jacuzzis, this is because their thighs are a hot spot...They'll be the ones holding you up fucking in the closet at your friends house warming party at two in the morning. They are built for lot and lots of sex in any way shape or form, kinky or slow teasing, fast and hard or slow and easy~ if you want to get your freak on, Sagittarians are the way to go! None of the other signs love Sex as Much as a Sag!


Capricorn (Dec. 22 - Jan. 19) --

Just as I was writing this one, my Capricorn friend proceeds to call me...Capricorns are psychic by accident. They have no idea the fates smile on them from time to time...they just accept it an move on. You can turn on a Cappie just by breathing on them. They are strong and responsible and have dignity. But they are too easy to turn on sometimes. And watch out when they are horny...whoever is in the room better have protection. They are natural screamers and leave bite marks. they like sex a lot as a favorite past time. Usually during commercial breaks is perfect. Its nothing for a Cappie to fuck seven or eight times during commercial breaks in an hour long T.V. Show. They like to do it in the shower...on the furniture...on other peoples furniture...on other peoples beds...Cars...Tents...boats....yep, if they are in the mood...it could be at the President's inauguration...get ready for some nookie! They love to bite. They might seem at first sight of them rather cold and insensitive. But when they warm up? There is no stopping them. They like to have the back of their knees licked. They live for tongue massages. They think porno is just SILLY...who thought THAT up? But they will watch it to see if they are missing anything. Give them dim lighting, a roaring fireplace and a nice bottle of wine...you might as well reconcile yourself to the fact that you better leave the phones off for the entire weekend and order food in. They like to play games...as long as they are in charge. This is a misunderstood sign...they can be very kinky. As long as it is with people they love.


Aquarius (Jan. 20- Feb. 18) --

MY favorite sluts are Aquarius. Why? Because if you don't expect anything in return, you won't be disappointed. Sounds easy, huh? They will get under your skin though, so beware. It's easy to be hurt by an Aquarius because they don't want you to know what they are thinking. If they are silent but you are in the room with them...chances are they are in heavy thought. But don't worry, chances are they are thinking about you...and fifteen other things. Water bearers look at sex like it is a form of recess. They can turn you on by simply walking in the room. They are the Rain Man of the Zodiac. They give too much of themselves to others that don't give a shit...then get shy to those that care about them. Go figure. They like kinky. They are easy going. To them, it's a learning experience. Male Aquarians like to tease and live life in a fantasy world. Female Aquarians can't masturbate enough...Males never get the chance to masturbate because everybody wants a piece of them. They like their ankles nibbled. They love back massages. Their ultimate adventure is the "But we might get caught" game. They will fuck wherever they run the risk of being seen or found by another lover. Don't expect faithfulness from these creatures...it's just not in their DNA. They are open minded to the point that anything shiny will derail their train of thought. Fucking while standing or leaning is a plus here. Fuck with their mind and they will follow you anywhere. They enjoy being fucked in groups of three. Think being Jack Nicholson in bed with the three Witches of Eastwick? This is a Aquarian dream. They need you to make the first move. Not to be dominated. But to bring them back to earth now and again for a little physical fun time. They get lost in the clouds a lot. Don't derail from your personal pleasure course, however, otherwise you will be just talking to them all night. which can be stimulating just as well too. Beware! They are the flirts and teases from HELL! Never take one on a trip to a Home Depot when you are both horny. This can lead to nasty things.


Pisces (Feb. 19- Mar. 20) --

Get out the boots - Stiletto heels - foot creams and panty hose...here come da fishies! They are the LEADERS in foot fetish. Masturbation in shoes? Okay. Toe masturbation...bring it on! They love using their feet. Suck on a Pisceans toes and SEE what happens! Fucking in the water and see them squirm. Pisces have probably done it in a sex swing. Or at least considered how strong the ceiling beams are on their house to put one in. Pisces men break furniture when they fuck...things get flung everywhere. Pisces can be turned on by the weirdest things...Trains...Water fountains...Jump rope...Whatever. They are the sirens calling you to the beach where you will end up on your back on a towel with water all over you and not wanting it to stop. I have heard it said that its the pisces that will cross the darker kinky side at least once...just to say "YEP. did that. Not that great" OR "What do you MEAN you never......" SAM from sex and the city should be a Pisces. These babes are perfectionists. You will have a perfect orgasm with them...so will they..in fact, they strive for perfection in everything they do...it's all in th details for them. There will not be ONE hair out of place with a Pisces. All of their fetish jewelery will match a specific whip or dress or shoes. EVERYTHING MUST MATCH! I have one Pisces friend that has nipple tassels that match for every pair of underwear and whip that she owns! NO SHIT! You might think they are shy! HA! They are just planning something. I had a Pisces Friend (Same Pisces friend with the matching tassels by the way) who was at a nudist beach in Brazil (You will always find a Pisces at a beach...its inbred in them) A middle aged man in his early 50's or so came up to her and immediately saw her body and BABING! got a hard on! Not feeling shocked in any way, shape or form, she walked right up to him and put her hand on his cock for a moment , then with her same hand took her sunglasses off , looked him RIGHT in the eye and said "DAHLING, your erection is SUPERB!" and she walked off never to see him again. You never can tell what the hell a Pisces will do, but I guarantee that it will be SUPERB! SECRET: Pisces women fall for a man that can wear a high heel and garter. And look good!

Why is is that when ever i want some peace and quiet and say that I'm antisocial it feels like I'm not allowed this fucking privilege.

All I want is some time to be alone. If I wanted to have a shoulder to cry on I'll find one.

*sighs and takes a deep breath*

OK, so what's happened (for those who don't know) Danni's back in Melbourne and I'm not coping so well with it. I miss her terribly even though it's only been a couple of days since she's left. I know I will be seeing her in a little under 3 weeks but it's still kinda hard for the both of us considering we had not been seperated for quite a while. Basically I've just been wanting some time to myself and I'm starting to feel like I'm not gonna get it and it's not helping.

I've come to a few life changing or potentially life changing decisions. So every one, brace yourselves...


I will be doing study next year. I've decided that initially an Open uni would be the best thing for me now as it offers me some flexibility as i can study without going onto campus. I have intentions on doing preferably clinical psyc and specialising in the gay and lesbian and transgender community. I've seen how hard it is for those going through transition and I would like to help with that. There are not enough support for this community and it's about time that there is alot more support available. The number of people who go into transition and don't make it through due to prelonged periods on hormones as a result of financial dificulty is quite scary and the government is doing nothing to help.

*pauses mid rant and decides to spare everyone my ranting about the TG community*

Okies, here is the other thing i wanted to say...

We've come to a decision. We can't be seperated. I know it hasn't been long and we've only just me from when I came back from Thailand but I don't think I've loved anyone the way I love Danni. For those who don't know, she's from melbourne on a working holiday so technically her home is in Melb. The problem is that we both don't wanna let go of each other. My home is in Perth and her's is in Melb. We're now trying to decide what city we're gonna live in together. I've decided to not do the selfish thing and say "stay in Perth" as her life and friends are in Melbourne. So I've decided that I shall see Melbourne for myself and meet her friends. Once I've done that we will come to a decision as to where we will be staying.

I hate the world today
You're so good to me
I know but I can't change
tried to tell you but you look at me like maybe I'm an angel
underneath
innocent and sweet
Yesterday I cried
You must have been relieved to see the softer side
I can understand how you'd be so confused
I don't envy you
I'm a little bit of everything
all rolled into one

I'm a bitch, I'm a lover
I'm a child, I'm a mother
I'm a sinner, I'm a saint
I do not feel ashamed
I'm your health, I'm your dream
I'm nothing in between
You know you wouldn't want it any other way

So take me as I am
This may mean you'll have to be a stronger man
Rest assured that when I start to make you nervous
and I'm going to extremes
tomorrow I will change
and today won't mean a thing

Just when you think you've got me figured out
the season's already changing
I think it's cool you do what you do
and don't try to save me

I'm a bitch, I'm a tease
I'm a goddess on my knees
when you hurt, when you suffer
I'm your angel undercover
I've been numbed, I'm revived
can't say I'm not alive
You know I wouldn't want it any other way

Well, nothing really interesting happened today...basically I went out to dinner and then we went back to Devi's and watched Better Than Chocolate.

I have made a discovery though. I think I have a tea addiction. This evening I went out to dinner with Devi and her dance partner Kerry. We went to chinese restraunt and i ate a bowl of noodles and drank almost a whole teapot of green tea... I had drank thrice what I had of noodles in tea. *wonders what kinda weirdo i have become*

Now wasn't that entry entralling!

OK, being as i have updated in quite a while, i figured i should prolly write some stuff here...

I'm leaving Perth for a short holiday to Singapore and Thailand with Devi. *does a happy dance* I really can't wait for this trip cos I'm really hanging out for a break from everything here.

I've gotten rid of my old homophobic GP. She didn't seem to like me and treated me like I was this cultural abomination... (she's also asian and well for those who know me, I'm not the most traditional asian person around...)

I've found a new GP thanks to my Dello and am back on my meds and slowly regaining some control over my insane bitch mode.

I'm also once again working on losing weight and I'm more determined than ever to get myself back to my former shape. As much as i would like to work on getting back to weighing what I used to weigh i don't think either of my partners will approve so I've decided that realistically I should settle for the 65kg mark and then hopefully if all goes well aim for the 55kg mark.

anyways, it's time i buggered off to sleep being that I have to get up in 7hrs for work...



Hungry Lucy > Good Girl

I’m not your good girl
I’m not anyone
Life has grown so difficult
Just trying not to fall

Sometimes I see you
Peek through your dark disguise
Though I am broken down by your words
I can’t look away from your eyes
You want too much of me
And you give me nothing but lies

When you’re here
I can’t feel
Who I really am
When you’re gone
I want to run
Far away

Push and pull my heartstrings
Each tug takes liberty
You fight to get what suits you
Make the world what you want it to be
Time to step out of your shadow
Let the sun shine down on me

I’m not your good girl
I’m not your anything
I’ve become so cynical
Smaller steps won’t stop my fall

Well...I've quit smoking and haven't had a cigarette for over 4 days. I had my last cigarette on Tues 29th May 2007 at 10.45AM. I know I haven't quit for long but I'm actually hoping the quitting attempt will work out...

I've even decided to spend the money I would usually spend on cigarettes on a gym membership and have joined Next Generation.

And on a diferent note...For those who didn't know, I'm once again back with my two girls...

Last night I broke someone's heart... I also ripped out my own at the same time...I made my decision based the future and on the fact that I was unable to compromise.... It's hard loving two people at the same time and it doesn't make it easier when you are told by others that the decision that you made was for the best.

....why does fat not have a delete button?

*sighs contently*

Last night I went out to Sin and then from there went to Exotica... I took Del for her first lap dance too. It was fun, I love corrupting my girls *grins* I loved seeing her go red... I think it's even more amusing than taking loreleibansidhethere. 

Sin was good... it improves greatly when one is with lots of friends...not that I was all that social. I ran into Daniel. An old friend whom I will NEVER go near with a riding crop in hand. (a few years ago, I went to Pride carrying a riding crop as prop and as a joke I had whipped him...much to my horror, he enjoyed it too much... /me thinks that someone is a bit of a pain slut...)

I tried getting my ex to come out to Sin..but her words were that she didn't like or want to go to Sin as it was filled with pretentious ppls... methinks that she was attempting to start ANOTHER fight with me considering last week she had said she was going to be at Sin. *shakes head sadly at immature ex* Although, after talking to a few ppls, I was advised that she wouldn't been compatible with the crowd there anyways...

But yes, last night was good! I was actually surprised as to how well it turned out. And today is going to be a fucking good day cos I have the next two days off! 

Oh yea and for those who don't know it, I have a new girlfriend, her name is Del and she's cute and biteable. She may be occasionally stalking my LJ as a random as she doesn't have a LJ account....apparently she prefers Open Diary...*sighs* women...  :p

I've decided on something fairly important today. I've decided that I would like to go back to study next year. I was thinking this morning that I don't want to be stuck in this call center and that I need something challenging to do. So I got off my ass and made some enquiries this morning. I have decided that I would like to do Law. I think it'll suit me. 

So yes, this is my decision. Now to work the rest of my lifestyle into this... (this is going to be the hard part) I'm gonna have to work out a balance so that I have some form of income AND being able to study at the same time. *sighs* If any one has any ideas, please let me know...

Oh and an update on my previous post, I've since resolved this issue. There will (thankfully) be no court appearance required. Now it appears that I am currently at war with my former housemates...

Today I decided to quit smoking.

it was a bad day to decide on quitting being that it was a monday and the fact that my ex decided to finally advise me that -I- have to go to court because she and my other ex housemates decided to not pay rent for a month and that the lease transfer had apparently not gone through as it should have. So now MY ass is on the fucking line for something which should NEVER have had anything to do with me. HOW DARE THEY FUCKING DO THIS TO ME. And how dare she tell me that it's "nothing to worry about" when it's my goddamn name which is getting called for a court appearance.

Not only is my name which is currently getting dragged through mud but now I am going to sort out the inconvenience of work as I am working that day that I am supposed to be in court. Thankfully I have Devi's support. She's been good to me and putting up with my nicotine deprived tantrums and tetchyness.